couples (6do encyclopedia)



Couples, also known as romantic pairs or partners, refer to two individuals who have a romantic and/or sexual relationship with each other. The concept of couples has been observed among humans for centuries, and is considered to be a fundamental part of human relationships and socialization.

Definition

The popular definition of a couple is two individuals who are in an exclusive romantic and/or sexual relationship with one another. However, contemporary understanding and expression of romantic and sexual relationships have evolved to include a wide spectrum. Couples can self-define according to their unique preferences and identity, with varying degrees of exclusivity, commitment, and intimacy.

Types of Couples

Monogamous couples are those who are committed to a single partner, who they share intimate and sexual experiences with, exclusively. Polyamorous couples, on the other hand, involve three or more individuals and are based on a mutual agreement among all individuals to engage in romantic or sexual relationships with one another. Open couples may seek to expand their experiences by maintaining romantic connections with others outside the primary relationship. There are also couples who choose celibacy. The existence of sexual expectations is what sets couples apart from platonic friendships between two people.

Dynamics

Couples undergo complex and evolving dynamics throughout their relationships due to various factors, such as individual personalities, compatibility, shared interests and values, and communication skills. Conflict resolution is an essential part of most romantic relationships and couples must navigate listening and validation skills, empathy and compassion to work to resolve any issues. Additionally, romantic relationships are subject to external influences, such as family, social pressure, and cultural expectations.

Common Customs, Traditions and Practices

Couples may engage in certain customs and traditions as part of their relationship and as a way of expressing commitment and affection. Examples of such customs may include celebrating anniversaries and special dates, exchanging gifts, and sharing vacations. In many cultures, proposals, weddings, and honeymoons are considered rites of passage that mark the beginning of a lifelong commitment between couples.

Challenges

While couples can bring a lot of happiness, stability, and fulfillment to each other’s lives, they may also face challenges. Trust and communication are commonly addressed as key factors in maintaining a healthy relationship. Communication issues can arise from misaligned expectations, a breakdown in the interpretation of non-verbal language, passive aggression, and stonewalling during conflict resolution. Infidelity, jealousy, and misaligned priorities over career, children, and social life can cause tension.

Additionally, the impact of a global pandemic such as COVID -19 cannot be ignored, strained the bond of couples who were forcibly separated for long periods, financial challenges, stress, social isolation, and anxiety. Couples therapy, individual therapy, or coaching, and an intentional effort from both parties in maintaining intimacy and shared emotional safety, are potential resolutions to deal with challenges.

Benefits

On the flip side, couples can provide benefits such as emotional support, intimacy, and shared purpose in life. Certain studies have shown that being in a happy relationship can positively influence physical health, reduce stress levels, and increase longevity. The benefits of meaningful, loving bonds with a partner can provide a buffer against external challenges, giving individuals the drive and emotional support toward the creation of a life they care about.

Conclusion

Couples entail a vast range of possibilities based on different cultures, orientations, and preferences in romantic and sexual relationships. The human inclination to seek a partner for companionship and intimacy is consistent across the globe, and boundaries continue to be redefined by individuals and society daily. With every dynamic challenge, they also offer the potential for deep connection, lifelong relationships, and a sense of purpose.


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Pope cross with woman who wanted blessing for her dog

Telegraph

23-05-12 16:50


Pope Francis has criticised those who choose to have pets over children, citing Italy’s sharply falling birth rates and the country’s “demographic winter”. Addressing a conference on the issue, the Pope recounted how he had lost his patience when asked by a woman to bless her “baby” which turned out to be a dog. Italy’s governing coalition has raised concerns about the falling birth rate and the projected shrinking of the population, which it believes could have a major impact on the country’s economic health and social welfare system.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/world-news/2023/05/12/pope-told-off-woman-for-requesting-dog-blessing/
Relationship expert describes four signs that you’ll stay together

The Independent

23-05-05 10:25


Clinical psychologist Dr. Kathy Nickerson, who has over 22 years of experience, outlined four signs that indicate a relationship is going to last. They include fighting fairly, caring about a partner’s happiness, the relationship feeling easy, and being intentionally gentle and kind to each other. Dr. Nickerson argues that good communication is vital to any relationship and "fighting fair" is important. Healthy communication is much more about a person's tone than the content of what they are trying to convey. Couples should also actively care for each other and ensure that both partners are treated equitably. Lastly, it is important to be gentle and understand that partners are "a safe harbor" for each other, as it creates a respectful atmosphere.

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/healthy-relationship-signs-happiness-psychologist-b2333131.html
‘No one is talking about this’: what happens when men age

The Sydney Morning Herald

23-05-05 01:00


Older men in Australia are experiencing feelings of worthlessness, confusion and a sense of being surplus as they retire, according to a report in The Guardian. Despite wider, recent public discourse on masculinity and male issues, middle-aged and elderly men remain something of a neglected group, with feelings of isolation and the likelihood of mental illness and suicide affecting them the most. Men over the age of 85 have the highest suicide rate in Australia, according to the Australian Bureau of Statistics. Men are three times more likely than women to commit suicide, and rates increase with age.

The Guardian’s feature suggests that women have the advantage in terms of having longer lifespans and better health spans. Men’s social connections tend to degrade after the age of 50, the report suggests, as many ageing friendships are transactional and based upon work and sporting connections, meaning they may not withstand the test of time. Women, however, often provide the organisational impetus for social networks and so benefit from a greater degree of robustness. This phenomenon is being labelled a “mates drought” and may contribute to feelings of depression and worthlessness among ageing men.

The report concludes by pointing out that while many older men feel confused and aimless, a wide circle of support can help to mitigate the sense of isolation and loneliness experienced by older people generally. Several initiatives are referenced that support men in maintaining an active social life, such as the “men’s shed” movement, which aims to create communal workshop spaces and craft clubs, as well as schemes such as Melbourne’s Blokes Psychology, which provides a clinical service exclusively to men.


https://www.smh.com.au/national/no-one-is-talking-about-this-what-happens-when-men-age-20230405-p5cyef.html

Why Chi­na got pop­u­la­tion con­trol wrong; In­dia got it right

Al Jazeera

23-05-04 13:29


India and China’s divergent paths towards population control have led them to encounter very different demographic landscapes, according to an op-ed in Al Jazeera. India chose to provide reproductive health services, choices for contraception and the freedom to decide how many children they wanted. Its population growth rate began to decline from 1981, and by 2020 India achieved replacement-level fertility. In contrast, China’s coercive policy of one child per family, which was enforced through fines and forced sterilisations, has led to a skewed sex ratio, creating another legacy of a rapidly ageing population and gender inequality. China has realised how its policy has backfired and changed its policy in 2016 to let families have two children and raised the bar to three in 2021. The op-ed posited that India must leverage its gender dividend and invest in gender equality initiatives in education and workforce participation as the country continues to grow and adapt to a rapidly changing world, with the success of its youth being crucial to its success.

https://www.aljazeera.com/opinions/2023/5/4/why-china-got-population-control-wrong-india-got-it-right
China needs foreign workers. So why won’t it embrace immigration?

Economist

23-05-04 13:07


China has an ageing and dwindling population, which is hindering economic growth and placing an enormous burden of care on residents. To address this issue, China could consider introducing immigration, which currently constitutes only 0.1% of the country's population. In contrast, shares in America, Germany, and Australia, among others, range between 15-30%, while firms complain of labour shortages with an estimated 30 million factory jobs to be filled by 2025. Thus, while policies to encourage young people to stay or migrate to cities would definitely help, immigrants would also aid the country considerably. However, officials view immigration as a burden rather than a remedy, motivated by anti-multiculturalism sentiments instead, with uncertainty over China's green card system further complicating the matter.

https://www.economist.com/china/2023/05/04/china-needs-foreign-workers-so-why-wont-it-embrace-immigration
Taiwan grants right of adoption to same-sex couples in latest move toward full equality

CNN

23-05-16 06:34


Taiwan's legislature has passed a bill allowing same-sex couples to jointly adopt a child that neither of them is related to, granting further rights to LGBTQ+ couples who were only allowed to register one parent as the child’s legal representative. Previously, only heterosexual couples and single people could legally adopt children unrelated to them. The country made history in 2019 by legalizing same-sex marriages, and proponents of full LGBTQ+ equality welcomed the new adoption rights as a big step forward. Challenges remain, including the issue of foreign same-sex partners currently excluded from marriage laws unless they are natives of certain countries.

https://edition.cnn.com/2023/05/16/asia/taiwan-same-sex-adoption-marriage-equality-lgbtq-intl-hnk/index.html
Are China’s ‘talent dividends’ enough to sustain the country’s rise?

South China Morning Post

23-05-16 10:20


The ageing population in China is raising questions over the sustainability of China's economic growth. India recently replaced it as the most populous country in the world, prompting analysts to question whether China's demographic dividends - a large workforce without significant burden on younger or older generations - will continue. According to the Seventh National Chinese Population Census, the age dependency ratio in China increased to 46.3% in 2021. The UN predicts the total dependency ratio could exceed 75% by 2055. China has encouraged young couples to have children, but analysts are sceptical about the incentives' effectiveness. China should turn its focus to technology and innovation, especially in the sector of aged care, as a way of mitigating this growing demographic issue.

https://www.scmp.com/news/china/science/article/3220753/are-chinas-talent-dividends-enough-sustain-countrys-rise
Taiwan grants joint adoption rights to same-sex couples

South China Morning Post

23-05-16 22:00


Taiwanese same-sex couples have been given joint adoption rights under the 2019 same-sex marriage legislation. An amendment to the legislation, which had its third reading in the Legislative Yuan, means the adoption process is the same for same-sex couples as it is for heterosexual couples under the island's civil code. The move comes after a landmark court ruling earlier this year in Kaohsiung that allowed a man to become the legal guardian of his husband's adopted daughter. Taiwan remains the only jurisdiction in Asia to have legalised same-sex marriage.

https://www.scmp.com/news/china/politics/article/3220776/taiwan-grants-joint-adoption-rights-same-sex-couples
Best romantic hotels in London 2023

The Independent

23-05-17 11:37


Travel Weekly has produced a list of the best romantic hotels in London. The choices include The Rookery, a hotel whose buildings date back to 1764 that offers Rococo cherubs, antique furniture and open fires. All 33 rooms are named after historical figures who lived or worked in the area. Shangri-La The Shard is a hotel offering spectacular views on the 52nd floor, while The Standard is a brutalist building with a 1970s homage and complimentary trainer cleaning, and Hotel 41 offers stargazing and an “old London” experience.

https://www.independent.co.uk/travel/uk/england/london/best-romantic-hotels-london-b2010541.html
Minnesota taxpayers can expect rebates under $3B bill nearing passage

Associated Press

23-05-18 19:29


Minnesota taxpayers will receive rebate checks in the next few months as part of a $3bn tax cut bill, which is nearing approval in the state legislature. The bill also includes around $1bn in tax increases for the next two-year budget, which takes effect in July. Republicans in the minority in both chambers quickly objected to those hikes given that the state had a $17.5bn budget surplus earlier in the session.

https://apnews.com/article/minnesota-legislature-tax-cuts-47d6b7e6619d565a869c21c3916c6782
This Week in Style: Puma’s F1 streetwear, celebrities reverse cosmetic enhancements and the rise of alternative engagement rings

The Globe and Mail

23-05-20 11:00


Sportswear company Puma has signed a deal to sell fan wear and produce merchandise for all 10 Formula One teams from 2024. Puma is an established racing performance products maker, having worked with Mercedes AMG, Ferrari, Alfa Romeo and Porsche. It has also launched a streetwear collection aimed at women with Scuderia Ferrari. The collection, designed by June Ambrose, a hip-hop industry veteran, will be available this spring. F1 is one of the world's fastest-growing sports, with an estimated 1.5 billion viewers tuning in annually.

https://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/style/article-this-week-in-style-pumas-f1-streetwear-celebrities-reverse-cosmetic/
Think Tinder’s shallow? Try Renaissance marriage portraits

Telegraph

23-05-21 10:00


The intricate details of love across Europe during the Renaissance are explored in an upcoming exhibition of paintings at the Holburne Museum in Bath, UK. In particular, the Renaissance is shown to be a time when marriage provided a pretext for all sorts of glamorous purchases, including paintings and commemorative tableware. The works on display range from paintings of couples to upholstered banquet furniture. The exhibition is intended to uncover how marital mores changed during the Renaissance period. At its start, brides were often shown off in all their finery, but later the focus moved towards matrimony itself, with couples depicted as pious upholders of a godly society with the family at its core.

The Renaissance period also saw the rise of a moral campaign in England against female beautification. Upper-class girls were matched with carefully selected bridegrooms and tested for their beauty from the age of 14 to check if they met Renaissance standards. Men were largely responsible for the vast majority of portraits and historical documents commissioned and created at the time, meaning much of what is known about women’s lives was influenced by the views and experiences of their husbands.

The exhibition focuses especially on artworks representing life in Italy and England. It includes Jean Decourt’s 1520 portrait of an English nobleman and his wife; Giovanni dal Ponte’s 1400s tondo with Sts Joachim and Anne, the parents of the Virgin Mary, seated opposite each other, and Hans Eworth’s portraits of the Wakemans, originally intended to be hung together.


https://www.telegraph.co.uk/art/what-to-see/painted-love-renaissance-marriage-holburne-museum/

Modest, but enough: Two middle-class couples share their retirement budgets

The Toronto Star

23-05-21 13:00


A typical middle-class Canadian can live comfortably and enjoy a satisfying retirement on a modest budget, according to David Aston, a contributing financial journalist. In the Toronto Star, he identifies a couple ("Sheila and Tom") that can live on a spending budget of $58,000 per annum, while another couple ("Louisa and Allen") can live on $77,000. Both these outlays are based on the knowledge that the couples are free from mortgage or other liabilities. Moreover, being part of a couple enables a much better spread of cost across both people so that expenditure is reduced on a per-person basis. Aston says that when considering how much to spend on a retirement budget, individuals should start by assessing how they currently spend their money, allowing them to identify discretionary costs. If finances are tight, consumers can prioritize the wants, but should distinguish between wants and needs to establish a comfortable living standard for retirement. When considering retirement spending as a renter, the article suggests allocating $20,000 to cover shelter costs per year if renting a basic one-bedroom apartment and accounting for supplemental funds to maintain a decent standard of living according to Sheila and Tom's cost structure.

https://www.thestar.com/business/personal_finance/retirement/2023/05/21/modest-but-enough-two-middle-class-couples-share-their-retirement-budgets.html